I get where you're coming from.
However, I like that there's a reason to make a day slightly different. For example, I love mother's day because my boys make me cards and write me poems, make me toast in bed, give me kisses and cuddles all day long, empty the dishwasher, etc, etc, in short - it's a day off for me. I don't want presents, there's nothing I need [apart from ski holidays obviously

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