Yeah I think Max already covered that, in his first reply, you're both right I wasn't carving, I was parellel turning. I got my terminology a bit mixed up!
To be honest I knew that the answer would be a resounding 'yes' as to whether I should take lessons, and I agree. I just needed a second opinion to put to my other half as she is the more experienced skier and believed that lessons were unneccessary. Thankfully I have convinced her that lessons are a good idea thanks to this thread, and we are signing up for one lesson at least, and budget dictating, maybe even a course of lessons.
Thanks to everyone for their input.